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There never seems to be enough
space at Seton Home, a refuge for homeless pregnant
or parenting teens. Each year the staff turns away
more than 200 girls who request placement, Executive
Director Margret Starkey said.
But with a new expansion of
24,000 square feet that includes a small library,
common rooms, a teaching kitchen and 24 furnished
efficiency apartments, the overall facilities have
come a long way since the home opened in 1981 to
house three teens. Now, officials said, the
chances of placement at Seton Home have grown.
Hundreds of Seton Home
supporters, including past and present board members
and current clients and their babies, gathered June
24 at the Mission Road grounds to celebrate the
additions with tours, a stroller parade and cooking
demonstrations.
District 3 City Councilman Roland
Gutierrez said the additions, including a small
chapel that is awaiting completion, are a blessing
to the community. "I cannot tell you how
important this facility is to this district and San
Antonio," Gutierrez said in his grand-opening
message.
A study published in 2004 by
Bexar County Metro Health's Project WORTH found that
in 2002, the birth rate to females ages 15 to 17 was
43.5 per thousand, 88 percent higher than the
national rate of 23.2 per thousand. Texas,
Bexar County included, has one of the highest teen
pregnancy rates in the nation, the statistics
showed.
Even with the additional space,
the need for placement keeps growing, Starkey said.
Many of the teens find themselves kicked out of the
house when parents learn about the pregnancy, she
said.
The girls can be placed at Seton
Home by Child Protective Services or through private
placement. The average age is 15, but the
organization accepts girls ages 12-17. Teens can
stay at Seton Home until they turn 20.
Laura Ann Lawson, 17, was
recommended to Seton Home after a relative told her
to leave. "He said if I was old enough to have sex
and get pregnant, I was old enough to take care of
me and my baby," Laura said. "He already had five
kids to take care of himself."
Laura said she was on probation
due to a theft charge, and her probation officer
told her that Seton Home was an option. She said
when she first heard about the organization, she was
not interested in living by someone else's rules.
But after giving birth and trying to support herself
and her 6-month-old daughter on a fast-food
restaurant salary, she changed her mind and
contacted Seton Home.
"I like it here now," she said.
"If you choose to be here, you have to choose to
follow the rules." Laura said she is working on
obtaining her General Educational Development
diploma and hopes to go on to college.
Starkey said Seton Home offers
parenting classes, and now nutrition and cooking
classes are available in the new kitchen. The
efficiency apartments are furnished with new
appliances, too, she said. "That was one thing
they were upset about," Starkey said about the
teens. "They wanted to cook in their own kitchens.
And they will have that opportunity, but they have
to go through the classes."
For some girls, however, the
rules of the house -- cleaning their rooms, avoiding
long telephone calls and watching television only at
certain times -- are just too much. Mary-Andra
Robinson, 16, and her 1-month-old son Deandre have
been at Seton Home since he was born, but she
already is hoping to leave. "They help with a
lot of stuff like formula and diapers," she said.
"But I still don't like it." She said she may
reconcile with her mom, who "flipped" when Mary-Andra
told her about the pregnancy. She ran away to live
with an aunt, but that didn't work out, either, she
said. "I don't know," she said. "I'm just
lost, I guess."
At the opening ceremony, Precinct
1 Bexar County Commissioner Sergio "Chico" Rodriguez
presented a surprise donation of $76,317 made
available through the Bexar County Housing Finance
Corp., Bexar County Community Development Block
Grant (CDBG) funds and the Sequor Foundation.
The commissioner said he also
hopes to donate another $160,000 from the CDBG and
HOME Fund, but Commissioners Court must approve the
amount. "This is a powerful force in the
community," Rodriguez said of Seton Home. "It
ensures (that) young pregnant or parenting teens
stay in school. It provides hope for the hopeless."
Women from a local club, The
Quilters, also have been donating quilts and
receiving blankets for some time.
For more information on Seton Home, visit
www.setonhomesa.org or call (210) 533-3504.
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